How & Why To Be Deserving for Your Goal

WiserPivot Solutions Consultancy & Software
Mar 23
3 min read

“If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal, not to people or things.” – Albert Einstein

Having something to live for is the greatest definition of being a Human. It clearly differentiates us, the Humans, from other living beings on Earth. All thinking humans have certain wishes — financial, social, for our near & dear ones, for self, for country…

Some wishes are worked upon & few are achieved. BUT, for most of the human population, most of the wishes remain at the wishing stage — far from the fulfilment stage.

The Real Problem: Not Lack of Dreams, But Lack of Commitment

One of the main reasons is the lack of own commitment.

People don’t fail because they don’t want something. They fail because they are not prepared to become the person who deserves it.

There is a significant difference between:

Wanting something
And being ready for it

And this is where most people stop — at wanting.

From Wish to Goal:

The solution starts with defining a good, constructive GOAL out of these wishes.

A wish is random. A goal is intentional.

A wish is emotional. A goal is structured.

A wish says: “I want this.” A goal asks: “Am I ready for this?”

The Shift That Changes Everything:

Most people think:

“I want this goal, so I should get it.”

But a wiser way to think is:

“Does this goal deserve me?”

This one shift changes everything.

Because now:

You stop chasing the goal blindly
You start preparing yourself consciously

And then comes the real process:

Preparing SELF for that GOAL. Being committed to that GOAL.

This preparation is not just about:

skills
knowledge
effort

It is also about:

mindset
discipline
consistency
emotional strength

Because a goal is not achieved by actions alone —it is achieved by a person who has evolved enough to handle it.

A Practical Perspective:

Before one deserves his/her GOAL,that GOAL should first deserve its ‘WISHER’.

This means:

Are you consistent enough?
Are you disciplined enough?
Are you mentally ready for the responsibility that comes with success?

Because achieving a goal is one thing…sustaining it is another.

The Role of Structured Preparation:

As highlighted in the framework, the journey is not random. It is a step-by-step process of self-preparation, where over a defined period, one aligns: